Since the birth of a child is usually the mother. Her mother
is the first primary school. The role of the mother of the child standard and
honest. A child in the world will be much bigger, much better, much depends on
his mother. That is why the first mother to be aware of. The man with the child
as well as to build up appropriate measures should be taken and will continue
to make every effort to implement it properly. Deposit in the hands of parents,
children of God, His blessings. Education is not what is given to them on the
Day of Resurrection he will give a thorough account. Some parents unwittingly
the cause of the child's bad behavior to go to the forest. The others ate
pepper, radishes, potatoes, etc., to bring the children. The child gradually
increases thefts path. Therefore, as a responsible and conscious parents to be
aware of each step is very important. Keep in mind the child's age appropriate
during corrections. After the birth of a child in accordance with the
provisions of the law on parental responsibility in the fall. Call the baby's
right ear to left ear as Iqama. Good name. Akika days to seven days as far as
possible. These are some of the primary after birth. Then comes the sound child
rearing and education of the phase behavior. This is important when teaching
children manners, and when they learn to talk. At the time, he will learn that
he is learning that.
Ibrahim Tabie rah atataimi. He said, they (the people) said
child talakina was teaching him to learn (teach-mouth). La-ilaha ill children
are the first to order. (Musannaphe Ibn Abi Shaibah, Hadith 3519), the second
of seven children, was ordered prayer. If there needs to be beating the
ten-year bond, which is proved by the Hadith. Then he taught the Quran. At the age
of seven should be taught the Quran. Hazrat Maulana Ashraf Ali thanabhi rah.
The prayer is the most important thing is to determine the age of seven years,
since I think this is the appropriate time to start studying the constitutional
bayasatai.
The Messenger of Allah and the Quran is the best siksakari
says. No parents could not be found, that his son did not want it to be the
best. The Quran teaches that there is a better measure so that it can not be
the best one. Do not learn the science of the Quran is the best person to say
that even if you can not learn. So first and foremost important to teach
children the Quran.
If the parents to teach children the Quran in the hereafter
they shall have an everlasting dignity. Narrated a Hadith, the Prophet Mu`adh
Radi al-Juhani. The Prophet has said, that person will act on the Quran and his
parents will be the Day of Resurrection will be a crown nor the sun will shine
with the light; If the sun is in your house. (However, the quantity of light to
spread the light of the crown, it will become more.) What about the idea that
he has to act on the Quran itself. (Sunan Abu Dawood, Hadith 1448)
Another approach is to build a true son of the children as
worthy citizens is the good company. The first child to be well used till now.
Majide Quran Allah says, 'You stand with the truthful.' 'The mystery of the
truth, to be truthful with you, and lie there with the risk of being rejected.
It is the Quran and Hadith, and the fact proven by science and experience.
Sometimes the child with mischievous children should not be allowed to mix.
That is important to be cautious about contact with. In contact with the
children due to the nature of the impact.
Another said that the current generation of mothers,
children are not only out of the house, so the TV was purchased. They should
know, TV, VCD devastating tool in the character and faith. With these things in
front of the eyes of the children of destruction. So you need to find our own
way we can save the children.
In some ways the most important of these factors idealized
child. The mother of the child is ideal if you want to develop in the childhood
of the child accustomed to the Sunnah of the Prophet
Recycle. One way to act in front of her own
circumcision. Masanuna places duaguli read. It will benefit too santanerao
future will be bright.
We can work in this way:
When the baby is waking from sleep to wake up his mother in
front of him to take the fall invoked. However, since the baby could not read,
but he will develop the habit.
* Keep in mind that if the shoe fits, put the baby in the
bathroom did not. If you do not put the hat on the head scarf or
handkerchief-be. Adabaguli supplication come into the bathroom and the other
mother would say aloud, then he would memorize barely hear.
* Merchandise in the right-hand and left-foot is placed
before. Similar to the case of the shoe. Duao to teach him new clothes.
* Feeding the kids a place to sit and eat, eat and eat and
clean up the ground, such as the name of the other behavior, supplication fall,
carpeting dastarakhana taught them.
* If you give something to someone, or if you take the right
hand turn takes hold khoyala.
Baccaderai practice many do not want to give anything to
anyone. So anyone who wants to try to be with the baby. Occasionally, some of
the children in its partner-pal to practice. As a result, the quality will be
better in.
In fact, he will greet guests at home, such as *, will also
shake the child shall articulate.
* With the purchase of any work by child MashaAllah say. If
you lose a bit of learning to innalillaha. However, the most trivial things.
That is to say, where such jayakallaha, Alhamdulillah, hope, etc. taught
seriously. I try to tell duaguli automatic places. By the remembrance of the
child will become a habit.
* Do not put clothing picture. On the west side shall not
forgotten urine.
* If any abuse or any injury with the caiye be forgiven.
Wrong apologize so that he understands and is made of quality. Do not treat
people like to pay special attention.
* As far as possible, by humility, to teach manners. By
humility, by which it is not rude. It should be taught by humility, with the
exception of austerity.
Above is the responsibility of both parents to teach
manners. We see this as a great personality in the history of this success can
be seen behind the mother's contribution. The first schools for the child's
first teacher and mother. Mom will be so vigilant and responsible in each case
the child. Islamic poet, Allama Iqbal said that, after his return from England
Child's mind, thoughts, feeling and beliefs, interests,
education, nature, civilization, civility is a virtue as well as the mother of
his child can enter easily by anyone else as it is not easily possible.
Allah is aware of and responsible for each woman is the
mother of grace